“Gary Bogue: More on dog walkers not cleaning up after their pets - San Jose Mercury News” plus 2 more |
- Gary Bogue: More on dog walkers not cleaning up after their pets - San Jose Mercury News
- Pets of the week: Purrr-Cilla and Kenya - Deseret News
- Pets 101: When a pet dies - Examiner
| Gary Bogue: More on dog walkers not cleaning up after their pets - San Jose Mercury News Posted: 12 Nov 2010 12:38 AM PST By Gary Bogue The leaves keep dropping Golds, reds, burnished cinnamon Buries newspapers. -- Gilbert B. Battung, Danville Dog walkers Responses to Tuesday's column ("Dog walkers need to carry plastic bags"):
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| Pets of the week: Purrr-Cilla and Kenya - Deseret News Posted: 11 Nov 2010 08:56 PM PST Published: Thursday, Nov. 11, 2010 9:55 p.m. MST Purrr-cilla is a 1-year-old domestic shorthaired cat and has been at the shelter for more than a month. She has an amazing and outgoing personality, but what makes her unique is her single eye. She came to the animal shelter with some trauma, and the veterinarian thought it was in her best interest to have an eye removed. She would do great in any home, and she is litter-box trained and spayed. Kenya is a very sweet 5-year-old Siberian husky. She is extremely friendly and gets along great with other dogs. She loves to sit on your feet and get her head scratched. She is apparently house-trained and passed her temperament test with flying colors. She does not like to be tethered and will chew through a lead if you leave her unattended. She gets along great with everyone she meets. She especially likes small dogs. Those interested in adopting a pet can visit Salt Lake County Animal Services, 511 W. 3900 South, Salt Lake City, between 9:30 a.m. and 5:30 p.m. Monday-Saturday, call 801-559-1100 or visit www.slcoanimalservices.org This entry passed through the Full-Text RSS service — if this is your content and you're reading it on someone else's site, please read our FAQ page at fivefilters.org/content-only/faq.php |
| Pets 101: When a pet dies - Examiner Posted: 11 Nov 2010 04:10 PM PST Here's the truth pet owners prefer to ignore until they have no choice: pets die. Whether in just a couple of years (small rodents), or 10-15 (most cats and dogs), or decades for longer-lived birds, reptiles, and large animals such as horses, most pets die before their humans. (Parrots and tortoises are a different story, involving willing their care to successor caretakers—but that's a topic for another day!) This also means that, if you have children, the first time your children confront death may come with the death of a family pet—or even a friend's pet. Grieving yourself, you now face the task of explaining death to your child. How do you handle this? I argue for candor and simplicity. The pet died. It did not go away, "fall asleep," or any other potentially confusing poetic language. Especially with younger children, who still think very concretely, the use of metaphor can cause confusion, guilt and even fear. (Will I not wake up? Will I be sent away?) So, candor and simplicity: Explain that their dog/cat/mouse/ferret/budgie is no longer moving and will not, ever again: not breathing, not eating, no heartbeat … dead. If you had to make a decision that the time had come to take a pet to the vet to end a pet's suffering, explain why: your pet could no longer eat or move or enjoy life, was getting sicker, was in pain and could not understand why its people weren't helping. Because of the immediacy of their thinking, the younger the child, the more times you will need to remind them that the pet is no longer alive. But even very young children will accept the fact eventually, however much they try to imagine the pet still able to play with them. And who can blame them for that? Most adults also spend a good bit of time reliving happy memories with their pets, too—or regretting choices that might have kept the pet alive and well longer if made differently. Without encouraging hysteria on either side, I do recommend admitting to your children that, yes, you also feel sad that your pet has died. Yes, you also miss playing with the pet, cuddling with the pet, even feeding and cleaning up after the pet. Children need to know there's nothing wrong with being sad about a loss. They also learn that, while the fact of the death doesn't change, they can live through the grief, and can even find comfort remembering how much they loved their pet and how their pet showed love for them. Should you get another pet right away? Or ever? That decision should be made using the same criteria you should use anytime you consider acquiring a pet. Consider your family's budget, lifestyle, children's ages, living quarters, etc. What you generally should not do: buy or rescue another animal immediately "to replace the lost pet." Grieving is important. Distraction via provision of a new animal will not replace the process of grieving. However, if a child is rebuked for continuing to grieve even with a new pet, the result could be resentment of the new animal—quite the reverse of the new best friend the parents intended. This entry passed through the Full-Text RSS service — if this is your content and you're reading it on someone else's site, please read our FAQ page at fivefilters.org/content-only/faq.php |
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